errr...lets no go with that one, kels^

considering you seem like a sweet nice girl, lets go with an approach that might be better for your point of view. firstly, im assuming this is a nice, normal, non-jackass, non perverted, non loud and non immature type of guy. im assuming those MUST exist somewhere...so lets assume they live where you are. now. if this guy is sweet and nice, and you've liked him a year etc etc...theres nothing wrong with letting him know you'd like to get to know him better. as for your friend...thats a touchy subject, but if your friend likes you enough, she'll get over it. if she hates the guy then she shouldnt be too effected by it, perhaps just worried about your well-being. if hes a jerk..she'll prolly yell at you and tell you youre being stupid cuz you like him? or if she still likes him then..idk she might be all like "mine!" it'll be akward for her though, so take it easy at first. anyway...*loses train of thought* oh. yeah if hes nice and stuff, id flirt around a little, but primarily try to get closer to him and form a tight friendship first. if youve got that, go on a date or two to see how he'll be as far as dating, and who knows? maybe it'll turn out for the best. if i find im liking my guy friends, i tend to go on lots of little dates/outings with them to get to spend time with them. and that way you dont necessarily have to jump into losing your "single status." try something chill at first, like a trip to the mall or a local rock show. dont barge into the whole "lets go to the movies and make out the whole time" thing right away.this way too, you can see whether or not you wanna put your whole friendship thing on the line or not with a relationship. for me, anyway, things seem to work better that way. hope that helps. good luck. you go girl. w00t. etc etc.

-Kait-

actually i was talking about GUYS being like that. am i a guy? noooooooooooo. cuz when a lot guys act like that, they're serious about the crap they say. the song/dance was dans idea put into action by me, because i can act like an idiot around my friends if i feel like it. it made me laugh, it made dan laugh, and if it made dan laugh, it makes me happy. in case you've noticed, i have no fear of being called weird or stupid because i joke around about stuff like that. and as for the last part,i had totally forgotten about that. lol. cuz you know i was so totally serious about that. oh yeah. *rolls eyes* im sorry you take light amusing jokes in such a harsh way darling, and i guess ill have to change what i say from now i since i soooo totally care what you think of me and my words and actions....oh wait, no i dont. haha, my bad

lol you're so easy to piss off

and again, am i supposed to CARE that is pisses you off? lol yeahhhhhhh

-- Edited by Tohru at 00:42, 2006-04-05

does that count as admitting you dont like me?......because you randomly go from "omg casey hi how are you" when you want to copy my homework in chem, to being a bitch. Could you just pick one?

kels, im sorry i sorta hijacked your topic, just go for the dude.....and not with subtle hints....i speak for most guys when i say we do NOT catch on to those

-- Edited by swordfish at 01:47, 2006-04-05

oh, and for the record, i can catch on to those

woah.....when did ball get proper grammar?

and alex....did you read the first part of her post?

GAH! being mad at people is too much damn work, i quit you win i bow to you whatever the **** im supposed to say

and another apology to kels for murdering her topic

-- Edited by swordfish at 22:47, 2006-04-05

good song
I kill children
I love to see them die
I kill children
and make thier mommies cry
I kill children
I slam thier heads in doors
I kill children
Can hardly wait for yours

xD I love that song!

lol what i find funny is that when i originally posted that i was in a "i really hate men!" mood..like i wanted to kill 'em all! lol so yeah it wasnt specifically going towards any person and/or persons...seriously. actually it was mostly leaning towards my one friend's boyfriend who was like beating the **** out of her at the time. but since certain people decided it was about them, and that they were all offended, i was in such a bad mood that i was like "rawr *argues*" instead of like *explains and stuff* so yeah. my apologies if i was all like "rawr" but yeah. and as far as me being a hypocrite...well im immature and stupid...but not on the level of like crimal offenses......err...

oh and....ive decided to leave to forum for like absolutly forever and ever etc etc or at least a few months...i might come back some day in the far future if i feel the need, or maybe some day over the summer if i feel the need to, but im too busy now and its lot of unintentional drama on my part and stuff and i could sit here and rant about how im a sorry loser for hours but instead im just...gonna say goodbye? kit, kels, etc, please IM me sometime, you girls are so nice. good luck with everything. adios

kait

Ok, thank you all for your help (especially Kait  ) Ha ha anyway I'm on spring break right now so I'm not gonna see him until next week, well... I guess I could try and invite him to the Easter Egg Hunt tomorrow... but I'm pretty sure that I'm not even going to that, so oh well.

And Casey, you totally didn't take over this topic, I just haven't looked at it in quite a while, so *shrug* no big deal.

Kait, it sadden's me that you are leaving, you were like the easiest person for me to get along with on here (that I didn't already know) and you never randomly made out with me or anything! Thanks for that! (lol j/k Casey & Alex you know I love you guys... well... in that "friendly-I'd-make-out-with-you" kind of way) But yeah, I'll totally IM you sometime... if I can find your username thingy on here somewhere... I don't really know why I'm saying this, because she said that she wasn't going to get on again for a while, so its not like she's going to read this or anything... but maybe it will just do some good for me to say it... I dunno... anyway... *thinks* Where was I going with this? I dunno, anyway Kait, you will be missed.

Thanks again for the help guys.

 

~Kelsie~

can you say relationship ADD?

yes, i just did

well can you say selbstbefriedigend?

cuz i sure as hell can't

lol nice Casey, but yeah, that whole "relationship ADD" thing won't be happening to me, I'm perfectly happy with the relationship I am in right now... just as long as my parent's don't find out that I'm dating someone who will be 19 in six months and I still have a month and 1/2 until I'm even 16... tee hee, yeah, my parent's really won't be happy about that. *shrug* oh well, as far as I know they are letting me go to Senior Ball with him... :) They don't even know him... well... they will tomorrow *worried face* but yeah, they think we are "just friends" lol that makes me laugh.

lmao psycho